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The Drama Triangles: Childhood Experiences Affecting Adult Life

    Have you ever been on the receiving-end of help & then, for no apparent reason found it all too much, too invasive, too personal & become highly defensive or aggressive towards the person helping you? Have you ever … Continue reading

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Keep It Real: 3 Simple Steps To Better Friendships

Here are Three Simple Steps To Better Friendships (from my own experiences): Say What You Mean & Mean What You Say – Be careful that we are honest with each other. If you disagree, then go ahead & disagree. Don’t pretend it’s … Continue reading

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Social Media: Good? Bad? Or Are We Simply Asking The Wrong Questions?

    Social Media: The turf on which good & evil fight it out to the death. I hear so many diverse comments from both ends of the spectrum: almost from “Social Media SUCKS!” to “Social Media is a PANACEA!” There is … Continue reading

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Make A Difference: Tell Someone They Matter … TODAY

    “I’ll do it tomorrow!” is a phrase that often passes through our mind when we’re thinking about something or someone not so high up our priority list. If it/they were, our response would be, “I need to do … Continue reading

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Seeing & Hearing: Do We?

  I was chatting with a very good friend recently & we joked that if we write too much in a message the other will have forgotten what we’re writing about before they reach the end! This led me to thinking about ‘Listening but not … Continue reading

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We Can’t Do Everything Ourselves

I love Easter as it reminds me that I am incapable of doing everything myself; sometimes I just have to let someone else help me! The problem is that many of us see accepting help as failure because we’ve been … Continue reading

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