Monthly Archives: August 2014

Friendships Are Like Flowers

Friendships are like flowers … Plant them in fertile soil, feed regularly, add a few ‘special ingredients’ to help them develop &  grow, then give plenty of attention & care. The result us a strong, colourful, beautiful flower that can … Continue reading

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Summer Beauty

Take care until next time …

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Sun, Clouds, Shadows & Water

A Summer sun sets behind clouds & silhouettes whilst casting paling light across the surface of an English canal. THANK YOU all for your support & interest, for taking the time to visit my page & read my meanderings or look at … Continue reading

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There Is No Shame In Struggling: It’s Okay :-)

Wrestling; Struggling; Sinking. Three words that can describe our daily lives at one time or another. Yet 3 words that many of us feel ashamed to use.   We think that they reveal weakness, dependency, some kind of inadequacy on our part. We … Continue reading

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Setting The Victim, Rescuer & Persecutor Free

    Sometimes we find ourselves locked into a seemingly never ending cycle: One minute we feel hard-done-by, then someone helps us, then we struggle with the help or we feel resentful towards the helper, then we feel guilty & hard-done-by etc … Continue reading

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The Drama Triangles: Childhood Experiences Affecting Adult Life

    Have you ever been on the receiving-end of help & then, for no apparent reason found it all too much, too invasive, too personal & become highly defensive or aggressive towards the person helping you? Have you ever … Continue reading

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“Why Did I Do That?” Childhood Experiences: Seeds Of Our Adult Life

  Have you ever been in a situation where something happens or something is said & you react immediately, later asking the question, “Why did I do that?” or “Why did I say that?” or even “Why did I think … Continue reading

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